Her husband doesn't think she should continue working after the baby is born.
她的丈夫认为女人生了孩子就不应该再继续出去工作了。
and at this point, according to my father, I should be looking at farms and cottages in a valley, with the spire of the church of our village showing in the far distance.
照父亲的说法,我面前应是一个山谷,有农场与村舍,还可远远望见老家村子里的教堂的尖顶。